Who Seats the Groom’s Mother? Wedding Ceremony Seating Etiquette

At a traditional wedding ceremony, seating the parents is an important moment that signifies their role in the couple’s journey. But who is responsible for escorting the groom’s mother to her seat?

Let’s break down wedding seating etiquette and modern alternatives to help you plan a smooth and meaningful ceremony.

Traditional Etiquette for Seating the Groom’s Mother

According to wedding tradition, the groom’s mother is usually:

✔ Escorted by an Usher or Groomsman – Typically, a groomsman or family member escorts her to her seat.
✔ Seated Just Before the Bride’s Mother – The groom’s mother is seated before the bride’s mother, as part of the prelude to the ceremony.
✔ Placed in the First or Second Row – She sits on the right side (facing the altar), in the first or second row, along with immediate family.

Modern Alternatives for Seating the Groom’s Mother

While tradition remains popular, some couples choose alternative seating arrangements:
💡 The Groom Escorts His Mother – A touching and personal option.
💡 The Groom’s Father Escorts Her – Especially if the couple’s parents are together.
💡 The Couple Walks Their Parents Together – A modern way to honor both families equally.

Additional Wedding Seating Etiquette Tips

✔ Grandparents Are Seated First – Before the groom’s mother.
✔ Special Seating for Divorced Parents – Parents may sit separately with their respective families.
✔ Ushers Should Be Briefed – Make sure the ushers know the seating plan in advance.

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